Dealing With A Breakup Over The Holidays
A few years ago the pain of the most serious heartbreak I ever experienced occurred just about nine days before Christmas. I spent a whole day, if not more, ranting and raving in tears because I thought my holiday experience as well as my 30th birthday celebrations would be ruined.
It turned out my tears were in vain because this writer, who can be somewhat of a Scrooge on any given Christmas, had one of the best Christmases ever and a pretty great 30th birthday.
Self-consciousness Can Ruin Your Love Life
Do you ever feel so aware of what others are thinking of you that you let that dictate your choices and actions? Then you just may be a self-conscious person. Self-consciousness can lead down a road to self-sabotage.
Are You Obsessed With Your New Love?
The first few months of a romantic relationship can be almost giddying in the effect it has on an individual. The dopamine centre in the brain, which is also called the “pleasure centre”, is working overtime. When you see the one you are involved with you get gushy and the warm and fuzzy feeling can overtake you.
Keep The Love Alive After Valentine’s Day Is Over
Get Over Your Ex Once & For All
Recently I spent all day listening to “Love is a Losing Game” by Amy Winehouse. The occasion: I just found out my ex-boyfriend I spent three months pining and longing for did not reciprocate my feelings and was dating again. I was crushed. This got me to thinking how I could avoid this situation in the future. Here I share my answers with you.
Your Mind Is More Powerful Than Your Heart
We think of love and we flash to romantic montages of gazing into our lover’s eyes and promising an undying passion. However, love also tends to bring up memories of tear soaked pillows and those I-can’t-believe-I-let-myself-get-back-here moments. In reality this is where “love” can leave us.
Fun Ways To Celebrate Valentine's Day (For Single Ladies)
Monday is Valentine ’s Day, the day touted for love and romance. Single folk often feel left out or lonely. However, some of us are comfortable and happy to be single on the most romantic day of the year.
Whether or not you are happy to be single, here are some fun, cheap ways you can celebrate Valentine’s Day as a single lady.
Dealing With A Break Up During The Holidays
For some, the holiday season is one of the most romantic times of the year and they look forward to the time that they will share with their significant others.
Is This Really Love?
“There are butterflies in my stomach every time I see him”, “I can’t stop thinking about her when she is not here”, “I think that he may be THE ONE”. These thoughts ever crossed your mind? Well then you are not alone. It is something that happens to everyone at least once in their life: love. Or is it love? Sometimes we are actually infatuated or in lust but mistake it for love and roll full steam ahead into a relationship only to become disillusioned or hurt.
Should I Make The First Move?
Dear Lisa Love,
I just want to say first that I love your column and I think your advice is really helpful.
Anyway, how do you deal with shy guys? There's this cute guy Jason who told my guy friend that he thought I was really pretty and wanted to know if I was single. Jason even asked him if he thought I would ever be interested in him. My friend told him to try his luck.