Should I Make The First Move?
Dear Lisa Love,
I just want to say first that I love your column and I think your advice is really helpful.
Anyway, how do you deal with shy guys? There's this cute guy Jason who told my guy friend that he thought I was really pretty and wanted to know if I was single. Jason even asked him if he thought I would ever be interested in him. My friend told him to try his luck.
That was a month ago and all he's done since then was make small talk with me and send the occasional random email. I'm starting to think this guy is really bad at flirting or just shy. I'm not a very patient person and I would like to see how it goes with this guy. Should I make the first move?
Yes, make a move. Times have changed; we don't have to wait on guys to chase after us all the time. He did show an interest in you and he might just be a shy guy or he may have lost interest but life is about taking chances. You don't have anything to lose so go for it!
- Lisa Love